Power

Excerpt from ‘Activating Your Crystalline Energy’ by Higher Self

Channelled through Carolyn Gervais

When describing true power, it is important to understand that every aspect of duality in your human world is part of the wholeness of life that makes up the universe. Relationships in each of your lives need to be seen as relationships you and other souls have set up as learning experiences...regardless of how they happen to manifest through the ego and free-will. When there is a challenge in a relationship, the peaceful resolution of that challenge in you, will pull you further into the light of your higher self, also known as the cosmic conscious levels and help to balance your feminine and masculine energy. We’d like to say here...that the balance of any polarity comes when the two extremes of that polarity...work together in harmony. This is accomplished by finding the middle ground and working with the combined energy of the two extremes.

Does resolution require that the other person within a relationship needs to see things your way before there is resolution for you? Definitely not! The only way peace that can really exist in a troubled relationship is if both parties look inside themselves and take responsibility for their part of the discontent that was spewed through personal anger, fear and self-victimisation. In other words, where did your anger come from inside of you. Anger is fear turned outward in the form of blame and expressed through attacking words and actions. This is victimisation at work in the sense that someone in anger feels victimised or the anger wouldn’t be there. Finding the true feelings behind the actions and sharing them with each other, is the only way compromise, acceptance and resolution can take place in whatever way is best for both parties.

Anger held inside through denial, physical distancing and avoidance is the false power of manipulation. This too has to do with victimisation. How? A person who manipulates by avoidance and rejection is someone who is not willing to take responsibility for their actions and at the same time...buries their true feeling of powerlessness in denial and blame. And by doing so, uses this manipulation tactic as his or her power to control another person; disregarding the fact that the power they are using is only a false sense of power that will sabotage them in some way, the longer they avoid personal responsibility. This kind of manipulation not only takes place in personal relationships but also in religious and business relationships...including the relationships between world governments.

The fact is that by taking responsibility for ones’ actions during or after a conflict, is the only next step available if personal resolution is to take place either inside or outside of you. In other words, your personal actions and feelings must be looked at and understood to the best of your ability. If you are blaming in order to justify your actions in a conflict you are not being honest with yourself. No one can make you do anything, unless of course, your life depends on it. But someone or something can trigger with certain words, certain actions, your fears and self doubts...created by your own inner beliefs and perceptions.

Wherever there is unrest, the unresolved and a way of thinking and believing that restricts personal responsibility…you will find victimisation in its many forms on Earth. War is one form, but victimisation can especially play out in personal relationships, with all of their variations.

So again we ask…what is true power and how does it happen? True power exists when your happiness and heart are balanced with your personal beliefs. True power is a knowing that your happiness and beliefs do not deny someone else’s. Real power happens when you love through your heart and not through your ego needs. Inner power is expressed when you can walk away from abuse. Power of the heart is when you can look at someone and see their purity instead of their faults. Last but not least, power is knowing when to let go of what you no longer need to be happy.

Power is also faith in the unifying power of the universe that you hold inside of you; the crystalline energy; your true Essence. In other words as we have said before in a more recent channelling...true Power is being aware of enough parts of the big picture that allows you to put those parts together in various ways that will bring peace and balance in any situation.

www.awakeningyou.com and www.goddess-light.blogspot.com/2009/02/activating-your-crystalline-energy.html

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