You can’t keep running away. And you may attract revenge if you do anything visible and concrete - such as showing any aggression, intolerance, or have him moved out. This way, he has no reason to attack. The darkness attacks you and asks for a fight - if not physically, it is taunting you, trying to provoke a negative, not positive, response. Fight fire with water, not fire.
“If you are irritated by every rub, how will your mirror be polished?” – Rumi.
Positive intent: sunrise, power. But there’s also sunset, wisdom to recognise the dark for what it is and extend one’s conscious awareness and balance it beautifully and gracefully.
“The wise heart is the one that cares about the consequences of your choices. This aspect of self-love is extremely underutilised in most people, especially in Western cultures. It’s far more popular and seductive to posture and swagger, acceding to the demands of the ego, than to be forward-thinking and wise...What behaviours leave you feeling content with yourself?...The wise heart is that of your inner elder, your ancient one. It’s the aspect of your Spirit that knows that, as time passes, emotions calm, passions subside and clarity returns. The wise heart merges reason with emotion so that your response is both wholehearted and whole-brained. It engages all of your faculties – feeling and thought, passion and reason – and discerns a course of action that benefits everyone, not just you. A wise heart feels passionate but acts with prudence. It leads you to discernment and patience. The wise heart springs not only from your highest personal reason, but also from the wisdom of the ages – a gift from your ancestors, anchored in your DNA…The courageous heart is the aspect of your authentic Spirit that sticks to your convictions, stands true in the face of fear rather than running away or becoming unconscious and cherishes self-approval over the approval of others.” - Sonia Choquette (The Answer Is Simple…love yourself, live your spirit, Hay House, Inc., Carlsbad, CA., U.S., 2008, p.92 and 98).
“A seeker went to ask a sage for guidance on the Sufi way. The sage counselled, ‘If you have never trodden the path of love, go away and fall in love; then come back and see us.’” - Sufi saying.
“Today’s topics were various and sundry. You learned of your galactic origin and how to communicate with your galactic brothers and sisters as well as your Higher Self, guides, etc. You’ve learned about star gates, aspects, your DNA and love. If I were to pick the one topic that will carry you the farthest, I would pick love. Love will bring you all of what you desire in this journey. Only in love can you be in full awareness. Love is in your DNA. It is the food upon which your soul thrives. Be in love." - Master Guide Kirael (‘More on the Journey to the Shift,' Closing Statement, channelled through Kahu Fred Sterling, www.kirael.com/content/view/557/38. I recommend the inspiring article by Susan Bog in Appendix III on this topic).
“The light was absent so people questioned the dark. They said, ‘Hey darkness, where is the light?’ The darkness said, ‘I wrote an answer to your question and I shall read it whenever there is enough light!’” – Saint (a poet and artist in Ohio).