Can you do this for yourself? Can you observe with love and compassion your own struggles to become yourself - alive, conscious, loving and joyful?
This is a time of birth into the new. You do not yet know who you are. You are discovering what is truly you and what is just a surface coating, a temporary protective shell.
You may find it helps to see all others who behave in ways you might be tempted to judge, as engaged in this same process - the quest to be free.
Act as you see fit. Be just without judging. All beings do their best.